- pick-me
Slang Word: Pick-me
Gen Z Slang Word Pick-me is used or popularized by Generation Z (Gen Z). Understand the definition of Pick-me so that we can better use it. Knowing slang not only helps improve communication skills, but also enhances understanding of the culture of the younger generation and helps to build better relationships between teachers and students and families.
The Definition of Pick-me
Definition: Someone who seeks validation by trying to stand out, often putting down others in their own gender or group to gain favor or attention.
Examples: "She’s acting like such a pick-me."
Variations: Pick-Me Girl, Pick-Me Boy
Origin: The term 'Pick-Me Girl' first appeared on Twitter in 2016 with the hashtag #TweetLikeAPickMe, mocking girls who called themselves 'wifey material.' Pick-Me Girls intend to impress men and are typically referred to having 'PICK ME, CHOOSE ME, LOVE ME' energy. The term 'Pick-Me Boy' later gained popularity as a boy who emotionally manipulates women by intentionally putting themselves down to seek validation and compliments.